Relationship

Evan on December 15th, 2009

I have a guest post on the Psychology, Philosophy and Real Life blog. It is about two attitudes to life – achieving and relating. I don’t have anything against achievements but think that relating is a better attitude to our lives. I think that the attitude of life-as-achievement tends to exclude enjoyment of the journey [...]

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Evan on September 25th, 2009

Some years ago now some researchers wanted to study the oldest and healthiest populations. They marked these on a map with blue circles. And so these areas came to be known as “Blue Zones”. There is an on-going project to research these long-lived and healthy people. The results of studying these people – giving us [...]

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Evan on August 19th, 2008

Image by Elsie esq. This is a rule of thumb for counselors – “if all else fails; reflect”. That is if you are getting nowhere trying to help the other person, just let them know that you here what they are saying: reflect back to them what they are saying. The idea is, instead of [...]

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