Evan on August 21st, 2008

[My apologies. I am having internet problems at the moment and am reduced to dial-up. So no photos until I am back to a better connection speed. Evan] I usually have difficulty when people get defensive. I feel surprised and not sure what to say. I know that I’ve offended or hurt them in some […]

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Evan on June 4th, 2008

Image by porcelaingirl Does perfectionism have benefits?The connection of perfectionism with discontent and misery is pretty clear. Whatever experience we have or object we encounter or person we meet, it is likely that they could be ‘better’ in some way. The person may be a saint – but they dress sloppily; the house may be […]

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