First a confession: I have a problem with most coaching and self-improvement blogs. They are often about people reaching their goals. What’s wrong with that? I think a lot of the goals are trivial or superficial. If people need a lot of money to feel good about themselves, well, I hope they make a lot [...]
This is just to alert you to Albert the UrbanMonk’s third post in the series on love and acceptance. The first is Acceptance and Attention – The Basis of Unconditional Love and Nurturing The second is Unconditional Acceptance for our Totality. This third one is The Obstacles to Mature Love. The obstacles that Albert deals [...]
Image by jurvetson For over two years I have been finding out what blogging is about. This is part of a bigger experiment that has dominated the last twenty years of my life – whether I can make my living doing what I love. The time for the next step is here – I’m going [...]
I have a guest post on the Psychology, Philosophy and Real Life blog. It is about the difference between being focused on something and being obsessed by something. There doesn’t seem to be a right amount of time to focus on something, and it seems that we do tend to focus on one thing at [...]
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This is the second part of Albert the Urban Monk’s post on acceptance and awareness. This is one of the best blog posts I have ever read, bar none. It deals with our need to be seen for who we are, our internalised critic, and the constraints we put on feeling. It’s practical and useful [...]
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