Archive for June, 2007
How We Stuff Up Our Relationships #3
This way of stuffing up our relationships is a bit trickier than the others.
It is doing to ourselves what we want to do to others.
At the extreme end of the scale this is often part of self-harming. For most of us for most of the time retroflection is nothing like this serious. It [...]What I Have Learned About Procrastination
Procrastination means part of me is unhappy. Part of me wants to not do what another part of me wants to do.This is a different perspective to the usual that I see presented – that we should achieve our goals and find ways of overcoming procrastination. I will be challenging this way of [...]
How We Stuff Up Our Relationships #2
The second way we stuff up relationships is by dumping on others stuff we ‘kind of absorbed’ in the past. (Technically this is called ‘introjection’.)
The stuff we kind of absorbed (introjected) is different to the stuff we learned - the language we speak, the hobbies we pursue, the tasks we learned to perform.
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